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Suddenly Senior: Symbol of status, icon of style: the hat

By FRANK KAISER
Published August 30, 2005


Look at any outdoor photograph of American men taken before 1960 and you’ll see every man wearing a hat. Be it a fedora or homburg, slouch or porkpie, Panama or boater - hats used to be as essential as shoes, adding a fine flourish to proper manly appearance.

The hat was so common that it found its way into everyday language: “Keep it under your hat”; “My hat’s off to you”; “Pass the hat”; “Throw my hat in the ring.”

After graduating from college in the 1950s, my first stop, before finding a job, was to a hat shop to buy that period’s fundamental symbol of successful manhood. I chose a combination slouch/porkpie - a silly-looking lid that you see today only in reruns starring Jack Lemon and Walter Matthau.

Honestly, my porkpie made me feel like an adult for the first time in my life. It told the world that I was now a man of substance, someone not to be trifled with. In a Chicago winter, with wind chill factors of minus 40, it was also very practical.

Then, suddenly and without warning, hats were passe.

I wore my new porkpie about as long as I would wear my Nehru suit a decade later. The fashion was first wounded by a revolt against rigid postwar organizational standards, then single-handedly killed off the day Jack Kennedy attended his 1961 presidential inauguration - bareheaded.

By then, I was working at a Chicago advertising agency, where one of my first assignments was to help create a campaign for The Hat Council to make hats popular again. But it was like trying to bring back the buggy whip. I remember wishing that the revolt had been against neckties instead.

By 1966, even confirmed hat guy Frank Sinatra ditched his expensive fedora when he wed Mia Farrow. He couldn’t afford to look old-fashioned with a 21-year-old on his arm.

According to many, this is when man began his descent down the path of deterioration and ignominy, never again to feel that proud camaraderie with his fellow gent on the street.

Today, the best we have for our heads is the baseball cap, usually advertising some tractor, beer or bowling team. It’s a child’s hat, which, like shorts, grown men should never be seen in. Especially when worn backward.

How far into sartorial hell must man descend?

My old slouch/porkpie is long gone. I wonder what has taken the hat’s place as the symbol of entry into adulthood. Surely, nothing as stylish, substantial or striking.

I say, bring back the hat. We’ll all be far better for it.

- Frank Kaiser is a nationally syndicated columnist who lives in Clearwater. His Web site, www.suddenlysenior.com includes nostalgia, trivia, senior humor and 111 Best Senior Links. Write Frank c/o Seniority, the St. Petersburg Times, P.O. Box 1121, St. Petersburg, FL 33731, or e-mail features@sptimes.com

SUDDENLY TRIVIA What is a hat block?: a. an ice hockey play; b. someone sitting in front of you in the theater wearing a large hat; c. a block or mold on which a hat is shaped and ironed.

Answer: c, a block or mold on which a hat is shaped and ironed.

esau s father

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Toldot (Genesis 25:19-28:9)
Esau

Parshat Toldot tells the tale of the two children born to Isaac and Rebecca, Esau and Jacob.

The Jewish tradition teaches much about the greatness of Jacob, who is known also by his other name Israel. Jacob is the symbol of fidelity to God, the symbol of goodness. Our entire people have assumed his identity.

But his brother Esau is seen as a demonic character. The very name Esau evokes images of mayhem and bloodshed. Though his midrashic reputation is unchallenged, when one reads the biblical text, one wonders if he really deserves it.

We know that Esau was a hunter, an occupation that, despite any ominous overtones, is not intrinsically evil. Perhaps it is the comparison with Jacob that has put Esau in a poor light, though does that alone justify the deep enmity for Esau transmitted across millennia?

We might claim that only due to his descendants — most notably Amalek — has Esau earned his inauspicious reputation. Alternatively, we may assume that the actions and attitudes of his descendants helped form the midrashic reading of the texts.

* * *
THE EVIL OF ESAU

Be that as it may, the text does provide a few hints regarding the evil of Esau and its origins:

And the first came out red, all over like a hairy garment; and they called his name Esau. And after that came his brother out, and his hand took hold on Esau”s heel; and his name was called Jacob; and Isaac was sixty years old when she bore them. And the boys grew; and Esau was a skilful hunter, a man of the field; and Jacob was a quiet man, living in tents. And Isaac loved Esau, because he ate of his venison; but Rebecca loved Jacob. And Jacob cooked pottage; and Esau came from the field, and he was famished. And Esau said to Jacob, “Feed me, I beg you, with that same red pottage; for I am famished.” Therefore was his name called Edom. And Jacob said, “Sell me this day your birthright.” And Esau said, “Behold, I am at the point of death; and what profit shall this birthright do to me?” (Genesis 25:25-32)

The description of Esau at birth, all red, probably covered with blood, seems to foreshadow the subsequent scene: Esau comes in covered in blood from the field ravenous after a day of hunting. The scene has premonitions of death. Indeed, after a day of killing, Esau comes home speaking of death.

And Esau said, “Behold, I am at the point of death; and what profit shall this birthright do to me?”

The Sages sense yet another aspect of death.

Another explanation is that Esau did not break loose so long as he (Abraham) was alive … How do we know that Esau did not break loose while he was alive? Because it says, And Esau came in from the field and he was faint. It has been taught [in connection with this] that that was the day on which Abraham our Father died, and Jacob our Father made a broth of lentils to comfort his father Isaac. Why was it of lentils? In the West they say in the name of Rabbah ben Mari: “Just as the lentil has no mouth, so the mourner has no mouth [i.e., is speechless].” (Baba Batra 16b)

Abraham had died that day. God, in His infinite kindness, did not wish for Abraham to witness the recalcitrance of his grandson. Thus, death is in the air and Esau has death on his mind. The Midrash adds yet another angle to this talk of death: Abraham’s old nemesis.1 Nimrod was pursuing Esau.

Another interpretation is that Nimrod was seeking to slay him on account of the garment which had belonged to Adam [and which Esau now possessed], for whenever he put it on and went out into the field, all the beasts and birds in the world would come and flock around him. (Midrash Rabbah - Bereishit 65:16)

The connection between Nimrod and Esau and the garment of Adam needs to be explored.

* * *
THE NIMROD CONNECTION

Nimrod is introduced as the personification of rebellion against God — his very name implies rebellion. The Zohar connects both of these themes:

Truly he [Esau] was a man of might, because he was clad in the garments of Adam and was able by means of them to lay snares for people and beguile them. Rabbi Eleazar said: “Nimrod used to entice people into idolatrous worship by means of those garments, which enabled him to conquer the world and proclaim himself its ruler, so that people offered him worship. He was called ‘Nimrod,’ for the reason that he rebelled against the most high King above, against the higher angels and against the lower angels.” (Zohar, Bereishit, Section 1, Page 74a)

The source Nimrod’s rebellion is somehow connected with the garments of Adam. These garments are themselves a symbol of Adam’s sedition and the cause of all death in the world. Nimrod is attracted to these clothes and inspired by them, as is Esau at a later date.

According to another Midrash, Nimrod died that day at the hands of Esau!

Rav Tanchuma said, “The two grew up, one on the path of life, the other on the path of death … Jacob embarked on the path of life for he sat in the tents and involved himself in Torah his entire day. Esau followed the path of death, for he killed Nimrod…” (Pirkei D’Rebbi Eliezer chapter 31)

While Abraham is alive both boys follow similar paths.2 Abraham’s death unleashes within Esau a murderous rage and a preoccupation with death. Apparently, during Abraham’s lifetime as a child, sitting on Abraham’s lap and hearing the tales of Abraham’s belief in God and the futility of the pagan gods and the pagan way of life, Esau was able to hold that odious side of himself in check.

It does not seem a coincidence that with Abraham’s death, Esau seeks out Nimrod and challenges him at his own game. The object of his desire is the garment of Adam and Eve, the symbol of man’s failure, the symbol of the futility of man’s actions, the symbol of death. The great loving Abraham had died; Nimrod, too, will die, as will Esau himself — and all men.

The philosophical problem of theodicy tormented the mind of Esau. The unfathomable ways of God brought Esau to seek a pact with evil, and death.

And Esau said: Behold, I am at the point to die (ib. 32). Resh Lakish said: “He began to revile and blaspheme as it is not written, What is [the birthright] to me, but, What is this to me? He denied Him of whom it is written, ‘This is my God.’(Exodus 15:2). (Midrash Rabbah - Bereishit 63:13)

* * *
THE DESPAIR OF ABRAHAM

The Midrash actually records the antecedents of such an approach within Abraham himself, as he contemplates his own death:

Then I said in my heart: as it happens to the fool, so will it happen even to me. (Ecclesiastes 2:15). “I have been called ‘king’ and the wicked Nimrod is called ‘king’. Both alike died; in that case, why was I then more wise? Why did I [Abraham] jeopardize my life for the sanctification of the name of the Holy One, blessed be He, and warn people, saying, ‘There is no God like Him among those above or below’? Then I said further, For there is no remembrance of the wise man together with the fool for ever, seeing that in the days to come all will long ago have been forgotten. Why [should he have said so]? When adversity befalls Israel they cry, Remember Abraham, Isaac, and Israel, Thy servants (Exodus 32:13); but do the heathen nations [in their distress] cry, ‘Remember the deeds of Nimrod’? That is what is written, So how shall the wise man die even as the fool!” (Midrash Rabbah - Kohelet 2:16)

Esau identifies with this articulation of despair more than any other “teaching” of Abraham. In this soliloquy, Abraham concerned himself with the world-view of the simple man, and not only the philosopher, and therefore considered the world from a superficial perspective. Abraham was worried that due to the human condition, with death in the world, he and his teachings would soon be forgotten, his deeds dissipated like so many other passing trends. Realistically, without Abraham, the world stood a serious chance of becoming a dark and ugly place again, sliding back into the dark age from which it had emerged. Indeed, on the day that Abraham dies, all hell breaks loose:

Rabbi Johanan said: “That wicked [Esau] committed five sins on that day. He dishonored a betrothed maiden, he committed a murder, he denied God, he denied the resurrection of the dead, and he spurned the birthright.” (Baba Batra 16b)

The concept of resurrection, which his father Isaac had all but experienced, could have provided Esau with the hope he needed to continue in his fathers’ path. Yet this concept, this comfort, eluded his tortured mind. Ironically, Esau with his philosophy of despair, helps extinguish the light of Abraham which had shone so brightly up to that very day.

* * *
THE FATAL FLAW

This “fatal flaw” of Esau seems consistent with other things we know of him and his actions. Esau seems to have been a superficial man, interested in the “clothes” but not the substance beneath. When his parents express their contempt for his choice of brides, Esau, the son so concerned with his filial responsibilities, obeys the command and takes new wives, but neglecting to distance himself from the evil woman whom he had already wed.

And Esau was forty years old when he married Judith the daughter of Beeri the Hittite, and Bos’mat the daughter of Elon the Hittite. And they made life bitter for Isaac and for Rebecca. (Genesis 26:34-35)

And Rebecca said to Isaac, “I am weary of my life because of the daughters of Het; if Jacob takes a wife of the daughters of Het, such as these who are of the daughters of the land, what good shall my life be to me?” (Genesis 27:46)

And Esau saw that the daughters of Canaan displeased Isaac his father. Then Esau went to Ishmael, and took, besides the wives he had, Mahalath the daughter of Ishmael, Abraham’s son, the sister of Nevayot, to be his wife. (Genesis 28:8-9)

This action speaks volumes of Esau, myopically adhering to the letter of the law while abusing the spirit of the law. Only a superficial individual would even have the audacity to conduct himself in such a manner. It is likewise fascinating that of the entire population of the land he marries Hittites, who are remembered for selling the cave where Sarah and Abraham are interred. Perhaps this is another indication of Esau’s obsession with death.

* * *
TWO RED-HEADS

The source of Esau’s problems seem to date back to his birth, his ruddy pigmentation sending an ominous, chilling message to all who saw him.

But the Sages tell us of another individual who was born with a similar exterior — King David:

And Samuel said to Jesse, “Are these all your children?” And he said, “There remains still the youngest, and, behold, he keeps the sheep.” And Samuel said to Jesse, “Send and fetch him; for we will not sit down till he comes here.” And he sent, and brought him in. And he was red-haired, with beautiful eyes, and good looking. And the Lord said, “Arise, anoint him; for this is he.” (1 Samuel 16:11-12)

Red-haired. Rabbi Abba ben Kahana said: “Altogether a shedder of blood. And when Samuel saw that David was red-headed … he was smitten with fear, thinking he too might be a murderer. But the Holy One, blessed be He, reassured him that he had beautiful eyes [which meant] Esau slew by his own impulse, whereas he [David] would slay only on the sentence of the court. (Midrash Rabbah - Bereishit 63:8)

The beautiful eyes of David are a mirror of inherent kindness, and of David’s ability to accept upon himself the law. The Midrash associates eyes with the Sanhedrin:

Thine eyes are as doves. Thine eyes refers to the Sanhedrin who are the eyes of the congregation, as it is written, “If it be hid from the eyes of the congregation.” (Midrash Rabbah - Shir Hashirim I:64)

David believed in law and justice, and killed with the blessing of the Sanhedrin. His eyes shone with love for his people. When an intransigent bully (Goliath) threatens their safety, David will kill. For Esau, though, it seems like a sport, a test of his own mortality, a dangerous and futile dance with death.

David believed that there is a “Judge and judgement” both in this world and the next. Esau denied justice in either world, and spent his days pursuing death and causing death, tortured by his own mortality and despising those who found comfort in eternal life.

The first challenge of Esau’s life — the death of his beloved grandfather — proved too great a test. Esau came away from that experience mean-spirited, a misanthrope dedicated to spreading his disease to all who crossed his path.


Angels of a Lower Flight by Susie Scott Krabacher

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Simon & Schuster
Nonfiction/Memoir
Release date: October, 2007
326 pages

I received Angels of a Lower Flight from Simon & Schuster, began reading it two days later, and stayed up till the wee hours of the morning to finish. It’s a strange and powerful story of the twisted road that led the author from a childhood of abuse to modeling for Playboy magazine and, finally, life as a happily married woman who spends her time helping ill and deformed children in Haiti - children who would ordinarily be left to die.

I was absolutely awe-struck by the horror Susie Krabacher has lived through but even more amazed at how she’s managed to turn a horrific childhood into the building of a caring organization in a crime- and poverty-ridden nation. Her story of both her own life and the history of the Mercy and Sharing Foundation is jarring in many ways and not for the faint of heart, but definitely an incredible story that needs to be told. Angels of a Lower Flight is shocking, heartrending and inspiring.

The story is, I should add, not particularly well-written. Krabacher quit school in the 10th grade to model, as much to get out of her childhood home as to make money. Yet, it’s a compelling read and I hope that her book brings some attention to the plight of the impoverished and unwanted children in Haiti, as well as the corrupt government and the sale of orphans for adoption. One of the most fascinating aspects of this story is that the author’s childhood was so traumatic that she’s seemingly fearless, enabling her to walk around freely in areas where even the citizens of Haiti are afraid to tread because of gang warfare.

I suppose that I just armchair traveled to Haiti. Scary as it was, I’m going to count it.

Susie Scott

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Susie Scott (born November 2, 1963 in San Diego, California) is an American model and actress. She was Playboy magazine’s Playmate of the Month for its May 1983 issue. Her centerfold was photographed by Stephen Wayda.

Susie, a devout Christian, lived in Utah at the time of her centerfold appearance; she worked primarily with computers when she was discovered by Playboy. She did a little bit of acting and appeared in a few Playboy videos, but she found her true calling in life through charity work. She is the president of the Mercy and Sharing Foundation, which deals with helping the children of Haiti to overcome devastating poverty and suffering. Susie runs the organization with the help of her husband, Joe Krabacher.

She is not to be confused with the Susie Scott who was Playmate of the Month in February 1960.

Susie’s autobiography, “Angels of a Lower Flight”, will be released in October, 2007.

Rod Beck Is Dead At 38

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RodBeckCard.jpgFormer Major League closer Rod Beck has passed away at the age of 38. He died yesterday in Phoenix, and the cause of death, at this time, is still unknown. Beck closed for the Giants, Cubs, Red Sox and Padres, and amassed 286 career saves.

More details as they become available…

(UPDATE: More from the East Valley Tribune, via Sports by Brooks)

Phoenix police said they were called to a northeast Phoenix home for a call of an unknown death and discovered a person dead and alone.

Police said the prominent person has two young children who are away at camp, and until the kids are notified, the person’s name won’t be released.

No foul play is suspected, police said, but authorities are investigating the death since the person was alone. The cause of death will be determined by the medical examiner.

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